About Wedding Traditions & Meanings

Tuesday, February 13, 2018

Before the white wedding dress

Today, the color of the wedding dress is based on what the bride thinks will make her happy, but most of the time, when you think of a bride in western culture, the white wedding dress, bridal veil, and the whole package that goes with them. However, if you look at the history of wedding gown color the white wedding gown is a newer tradition. In fact, buying a dress specifically for the wedding is a relatively new practice. For most of history, brides typically wore their best dress to the ceremony even if it was black. In fact, black and dark colors were popular because stains and imperfections were less noticeable and the dress could be worn again.


A blue wedding dress symbolized the bride's virginity.
 
Color of wedding dress meanings
Weddings of the Middle Ages and immediately following were often more a matter of politics than love, and so the bride wore a dress that made her family look good. Brides from wealthy families often wore bold colors in fabrics like velvet and silk and layered in furs. But when it came to lower-class everyday folk, colors of dresses held symbolic meanings which nixed some colors and made others more popular. But even in ancient times the meaning of colors was often debated.

  • Blue wedding dress: In 1870, blue dresses made a popular choice because they were the color of heaven and represented purity, virtue and a connection to the Virgin Mary. Brides who wore blue thought their husbands would be true to them, and this is the reason many modern brides carry something blue on their wedding day. A blue wedding dress is still popular today and thought to be the color of water representing calmness and peacefulness. In modern tradition, blue signifies stability, security and lifelong loyalty.
  • Red wedding dress: In Medieval times, red was reserved for nobility and the wealthy, and in Victorian times it was avoided because it was the color of "scarlet women" and hussies. However, it is the traditional color in the Eastern cultures of China, India, Pakistan, and Vietnam, and today, red wedding dresses are growing in popularity in the West and thought to symbolize positives like passion and being in love (think Valentine’s day).
  • Pink wedding dress: Pink was thought to be the best color to wear for May weddings because it complemented most complexions. However, some thought it to be an unlucky color which can be seen in sayings of the time like, “Marry in pink and your fortunes will sink!”
  • Green wedding dress: You would think that since green is the color of hope and new growth that it would be a top choice for a wedding dress, but it was actually one of the few colors that were avoided in the Middle Ages because it was considered unlucky. Why? Because it was the fairies’ color and you certainly didn’t want to draw their attention during a time of transition.
  • Yellow wedding dress: Bright yellow wedding dresses were trendy back in the eighteenth century, but before then it was considered an “unholy” shade to wear in church and was associated with heathen and non-Christians.
Red is the traditional color in the Eastern cultures.

History of white wedding dress
Many people think of the white wedding dress as a symbol of virginity, but that wasn’t the original meaning. That symbolism was connected to the blue wedding dress while the white dress actually was tied to wealth and royalty, except in France where white was the color worn when in mourning. Examples of brides wearing white can be traced back as early as 1406, the 1840 marriage of England’s Queen Victoria to her cousin Prince Albert.

During the Great Depression, when times were difficult most people didn’t have money to spend on a gown they would never wear again. For this reason, brides returned to the tradition of wearing their best dress which tended to be a darker color. But in the second half of the 20th century, following an economic boon, white became the popular color choice for wedding dresses again.

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Monday, February 12, 2018

Pros and cons of a woodland wedding

Woodland weddings are a growing trend because they complement so many wedding styles. After all, a wedding in the woods offers the perfect backdrop for a casual boho wedding or a rustically elegant affair. It’s also an ideal choice for eco-friendly-minded couples and those who enjoy the outdoors, but there are still a handful of pros and cons to consider.

 
Pros and cons
For those who feel at home beneath blue skies and yearn for a wedding without walls, an outdoor wedding is a perfect choice, though it’s a good idea to have a basket of travel size sunscreen and insect repellent wipes available to guests.




Pros:

Space flexibility: A woodland wedding is much more flexible with guest count maximum capacity.
Natural lighting: Outdoor natural lighting makes for beautiful wedding pictures.
Family friendly: Kids have plenty of room to run around and play in an outdoor venue. You can even arrange to include a few lawn games for children and adults to enjoy.
Natural landscapes create a stunning setting: The woods create the perfect backdrop for breathtaking photographs. Couples who choose a woodland wedding save on design costs, since the scenery provides visual interest whether it includes spring’s blooms, summer's green canopy, or the stunning colors of fall.



Cons:

Weather: Whether you go with a woodland wedding, a beach wedding, or some other outdoor venue one of the biggest disadvantages is the uncertainty of weather. For this reason, many couples rent a tent which can cost thousands of dollars depending on the size and type.
Insects: Mosquitoes and other bugs are sure to attend your outdoor wedding. They not only can pester your guests with buzzing and bites, they also swarm around the food table. Make preparations to ensure that guests aren't bothered by the little pests.
Reservations difficult: Since woodland weddings take place during spring, summer, and early fall, the best locations are booked well in advance. To avoid scheduling conflicts, book your venue as soon as possible.
Seasonal allergies: Seasonal allergies to pollen and molds can also be a challenge with a woodland wedding. If your wedding is held when pollen counts are high, it can help to find a site near a lake because wind off lakes can help lower the count. Also, an afternoon wedding is better because pollen counts tend to be highest in the morning. Either way, it's a good idea to have tissues available.

One last thing worth mentioning for woodland brides is to consider the dress. If it’s going to bother you if the bottom of your dress gets soiled, choose a tea length, a style you can bustle up, or buy a bridal petticoat which lifts the hem slightly, or spray the hem with Scotchgard Fabric Protector spray before you wear it.

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