How to Play the Mr. & Mrs. Shoe Game at Your Wedding (with 30 Fun Questions!)

Wedding receptions are full of laughter, love, and unforgettable moments, and the Mr. & Mrs. Shoe Game (also known as the Shoe Game) is one of the best ways to get everyone smiling. This lighthearted activity lets the bride and groom show how well they really know each other while entertaining the guests.

If you’re planning a fun, interactive moment for your wedding or shower, this simple game is a perfect fit. Here’s everything you need to know from how to play to the funniest questions to ask!

What is the Mr. & Mrs. shoe game?

The Mr. & Mrs. Game (also called the Shoe Game) is a popular wedding reception activity inspired by The Newlywed Game. Instead of answering with words, the bride and groom raise shoes to show their answers and the results are always hilarious!

It’s easy to set up, fun for guests of all ages, and gives everyone a chance to see the couple’s personalities shine. 

 

The Mr. & Mrs. Game is also known as the Shoe Game.

 

How to play the shoe game

To play the shoe game game, the bride and groom take of their shoes. The groom holds one of the bride's shoes in one hand and one of his shoes in the other. The bride does the same. They are seated back to back so they can's see each other and the MC or DJ starts asking questions.

 

  

What You’ll Need:

• Two chairs placed back-to-back

• One of the bride’s shoes and one of the groom’s shoes (each will hold one of each)

• A list of fun questions

• An MC, DJ, or friend to ask the questions

The Rules:

1. The bride and groom sit back-to-back so they can’t see each other.

2. Each holds one of their own shoes and one of their partner’s shoes.

3. The host asks a series of questions — for example, “Who’s more likely to forget an anniversary?”

4. Without speaking, the couple raises the shoe of the person they think best fits the answer.

5. The guests laugh (a lot).

The game usually takes about 10–15 minutes and includes around 20–30 questions.

It's fun and gets everyone laughing and even people near the back of the room can "see" the couple's responses.

 

Funny & Romantic Shoe Game Questions

Here are some fun ideas to get you started! Feel free to add your own or invite guests to suggest questions on wedding shoe game note cards at each table.

Funny Questions

• Who’s most likely to drop their phone in the toilet?

• Who takes longer to get ready?

• Who spends more money?

• Who hogs the blankets?

• Who’s more likely to burn dinner?

• Who’s the better dancer?

Romantic or Sweet Questions

• Who said “I love you” first?

• Who’s the better cook?

• Who’s the bigger romantic?

• Who gives better gifts?

• Who’s the better kisser?

• Who’s more likely to plan a surprise date?

Everyday Life Questions

• Who has to have the last word?

• Who spends more time on social media?

• Who’s more organized?

• Who’s more likely to get lost?

• Who’s the bigger baby when they have a cold?

Tip: Keep your audience in mind! If kids or older family members are present, skip any overly personal or adult-themed questions.

Tips for Hosting the Shoe Game

• Choose the right host: A lively MC or DJ keeps the energy up.

• Start simple, end funny: Build to your most hilarious questions near the end.

• Use a microphone: So even guests at the back can enjoy it.

• Keep it light-hearted: The goal is laughter, not competition!

  
  

The Mr. & Mrs. Shoe Game is a timeless, laughter-filled way to celebrate your relationship in front of family and friends. It’s easy to plan, needs almost no equipment, and guarantees great memories — and lots of giggles — at your wedding reception or shower..

 

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