How the Bridal Bouquet Became a Timeless Symbol of Love: Unveiling Its History and Significance

The bridal bouquet is a beautiful and meaningful tradition in weddings, but its origins and symbolism have evolved over centuries. Here's a deeper look into its history and significance.

Unveiling bridal bouquet history and significance

Ancient Origins: The tradition of carrying flowers by brides dates back to ancient civilizations. In ancient Rome, brides carried herbs and spices to ward off evil spirits and ensure fertility. Similarly, in ancient Greece, brides carried bouquets of herbs and flowers to symbolize new beginnings, fidelity, and hope.

 

Medieval Europe: During the Middle Ages, the bridal bouquet took on religious symbolism. Brides carried strong-smelling herbs and spices, such as garlic and dill, to ward off evil spirits. Flowers such as daisies, symbolizing innocence, and marigolds, symbolizing protection and prosperity, were also popular choices.

 

Victorian Era: The Victorian era saw the bridal bouquet evolve into a more elaborate and symbolic accessory. Queen Victoria's wedding in 1840 popularized the use of flowers in weddings, particularly her bouquet of snowdrops, which symbolized hope and purity. The Victorian language of flowers, or floriography, further heightened the symbolism of bouquets, with each flower carrying its own meaning.

L'Adieu. Wedding of Crown Prince Frederick William and Princess Victoria. Date: 1858. Culture: British. Accession number: B2011.12.6.

Symbolism of the bridal bouquet

The bridal bouquet is rich in symbolism, with each flower carrying its own significance. Some common floral symbolism in bridal bouquets includes:

• Roses: Symbolize love, passion, and beauty.
• Lily of the Valley: Signify purity and happiness.
• Peonies: Represent prosperity, good fortune, and a happy marriage.
• Calla Lilies: Symbolize magnificence and beauty.

Additionally, the colors and arrangement of flowers can convey specific meanings. For example, white flowers symbolize purity and innocence, while red flowers symbolize love and passion.

Modern Significance: Today, the bridal bouquet remains an essential element of weddings, albeit with more personalization and creativity. Brides often choose flowers based on their personal preferences, wedding theme, or cultural significance. Some couples incorporate heirloom jewelry or meaningful keepsakes into their bouquets, adding an extra layer of sentimentality.

The bridal bouquet has evolved from its ancient roots and superstitions as a protective charm to become a symbol of love, purity, and new beginnings. Its rich history and symbolism continue to add beauty and meaning to weddings across cultures and generations.

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Ideas for a medieval wedding theme

Whether you’re a fantasy fan or a Middle Ages history buff, a medieval wedding theme offers a fun way to bring a special-to-you unique touch to your wedding. Of course, you’ll have to put aside the fact that most marriages in the middle ages were arranged and just use traditions linked to customs that work for today. The good news is there are plenty of them.

Medieval wedding traditions still practiced today

Medieval wedding traditions still practiced today include wedding vows (much of the same wording is still utilized today), the bride still stands on the left and groom on the right (a tradition tied to the history of the best man), the ring exchange and the fact that the ring is still placed on the fourth finger of the left hand – all these are basically the same as during the Middle Ages. And then there is the large feast and a time for music and dancing following the wedding ceremony.

This foundation of rituals gives brides and grooms plenty to work with, and if you’re a creative couple, the following medieval wedding practices can provide the artistic fodder needed to make your day original and special. Think medieval wedding decorations, a venue such as a castle wedding, dressing in period clothing, and coming up with a medieval menu for your feast.

Peasant weddings were often held in a barn or outdoors.

Medieval marriage facts

The first question to ask yourself is: Do you want a peasant marriage from the middle ages or something more like the marriage of a noble or even a royal? Here's what you need to know:

• Peasant marriage in the middle ages: Peasant women had the most freedom when it came to marriage because those of the lower class were free to marry for love though many took place more because of need. You see, because they were poor, peasants were often needed to help with family work. As a result, they often married later and the ceremony was simple and they held their feast in a barn or outdoors.
• Medieval royal wedding traditions: While royal weddings in the Middle Ages were filled with pomp they were most often political in nature and never amounted to more than that for the bride and groom.
• Noble marriage in the middle ages: Nobel marriages were for the most part more of a contract than a celebration as we think of a wedding today. Husbands and wife were often promised at birth and didn’t even know each other. Weddings could take place once the girl reached puberty and it was common for nobility to hold a wedding ball.

Medieval wedding decorations

In Medieval times, tapestries decorated the walls. A raised table would be located at one end of the hall to seat the lord and his family plus any distinguished guests. On the main floor, two tables seated the rest of the guests who were seated on stools on only one side of the table so they could see the lord. 

 

The medieval wedding feast

The medieval wedding feast included family and friends. The menu offered things like fruit, soup or stew, roasts, tarts and other pastries including pies. The meal often ended with cracker-like wafers, cheese, and candied fruits. The couple drank wine and were entertained with love songs and poems performed by minstrels. (Picture a DJ dressed as a minstrel.) The medieval wedding cake was nothing like what we have today, so if you want to do something medieval, you’d serve an unsweetened loaf of bread. And you might even crumble it over the head of the bride and let guests gather up crumbs for good luck. Here are a few other historical facts that could make things memorable:

• Forks hadn’t been invented yet, so no forks and guests were required to bring their own spoon and knife and stoup to drink from. These drinking vessels were commonly crafted of wood or clay.
• 3-7 courses would be served but back then each course could include a mix of appetizers, main courses or desserts.
• Guests were numbered in groups (called a “mess”) of 2-6 people who would “share” the food set before them.
• Between courses as the tables were cleared, guests were provided with entertainment. Think jugglers, musicians, court jester.

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Medieval wedding game

For fun, instead of clinking glasses, in medieval times guests stacked buns as high as they could in front of the newlyweds. Back then, the belief was that this brought prosperity IF the bride and groom could kiss each other while standing on opposite sides of the stack.

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