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Wednesday, December 5, 2018

Ideas for a medieval wedding theme


Whether you’re a fantasy fan or a Middle Ages history buff, a medieval wedding theme offers a fun way to bring a special-to-you unique touch to your wedding. Of course, you’ll have to put aside the fact that most marriages in the middle ages were arranged and just use traditions linked to customs that work for today. The good news is there are plenty of them.

Medieval wedding traditions still practiced today

Medieval wedding traditions still practiced today include wedding vows (much of the same wording is still utilized today), the bride still stands on the left and groom on the right (a tradition tied to the history of the best man), the ring exchange and the fact that the ring is still placed on the fourth finger of the left hand – all these are basically the same as during the Middle Ages. And then there is the large feast and a time for music and dancing following the wedding ceremony.

This foundation of rituals gives brides and grooms plenty to work with, and if you’re a creative couple, the following medieval wedding practices can provide the artistic fodder needed to make your day original and special. Think medieval wedding decorations, a venue such as a castle wedding, dressing in period clothing, and coming up with a medieval menu for your feast.


Peasant weddings were often held in a barn or outdoors.

Medieval marriage facts

The first question to ask yourself is: Do you want a peasant marriage from the middle ages or something more like the marriage of a noble or even a royal? Here's what you need to know:
  • Peasant marriage in the middle ages: Peasant women had the most freedom when it came to marriage because those of the lower class were free to marry for love though many took place more because of need. You see, because they were poor, peasants were often needed to help with family work. As a result, they often married later and the ceremony was simple and they held their feast in a barn or outdoors.
  • Medieval royal wedding traditions: While royal weddings in the Middle Ages were filled with pomp they were most often political in nature and never amounted to more than that for the bride and groom.
  • Noble marriage in the middle ages: Nobel marriages were for the most part more of a contract than a celebration as we think of a wedding today. Husbands and wife were often promised at birth and didn’t even know each other. Weddings could take place once the girl reached puberty and it was common for nobility to hold a wedding ball.

    Medieval wedding decorations

    In Medieval times, tapestries decorated the walls. A raised table would be located at one end of the hall to seat the lord and his family plus any distinguished guests. On the main floor, two tables seated the rest of the guests who were seated on stools on only one side of the table so they could see the lord. 

     


    The medieval wedding feast

    The medieval wedding feast included family and friends. The menu offered things like fruit, soup or stew, roasts, tarts and other pastries including pies. The meal often ended with cracker-like wafers, cheese, and candied fruits. The couple drank wine and were entertained with love songs and poems performed by minstrels. (Picture a DJ dressed as a minstrel.) The medieval wedding cake was nothing like what we have today, so if you want to do something medieval, you’d serve an unsweetened loaf of bread. And you might even crumble it over the head of the bride and let guests gather up crumbs for good luck. Here are a few other historical facts that could make things memorable:
    • Forks hadn’t been invented yet, so no forks and guests were required to bring their own spoon and knife and stoup to drink from. These drinking vessels were commonly crafted of wood or clay.
    • 3-7 courses would be served but back then each course could include a mix of appetizers, main courses or desserts.
    • Guests were numbered in groups (called a “mess”) of 2-6 people who would “share” the food set before them.
    • Between courses as the tables were cleared, guests were provided with entertainment. Think jugglers, musicians, court jester.

      Medieval Celebrations: How to Plan Holidays, Weddings, and Feasts with Recipes, Customs and Costumes


      Medieval wedding game

      For fun, instead of clinking glasses, in medieval times guests stacked buns as high as they could in front of the newlyweds. Back then, the belief was that this brought prosperity IF the bride and groom could kiss each other while standing on opposite sides of the stack.

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      Monday, May 21, 2018

      4 wedding traditions in Mexico


      Like every culture, wedding traditions in Mexico have evolved over time with a blend of ancient customs from Mayan and Aztec rituals, Spanish customs, as well as the incorporation of modern wedding trends. While things like food, music, wedding dresses, and such elements of weddings vary from one family to another in Mexican tradition, one thing that holds true − the belief that marriage is a pillar of the family. With that said, for today’s post we’ll look and four special wedding traditions popular in Mexico.

      Wedding Arras 13 Gold Coins
      Wedding Arras


      Wedding arras – 13 gold coins

      One unforgettable wedding tradition in Mexico is the giving of 13 gold coins known as wedding arras. The roots of this tradition are actually from a Roman tradition of breaking a silver or gold coin in two and giving half to the bride and the other to the groom. This is to symbolize the finding of middle ground in the marriage union.

      In the Mexican wedding tradition, the bride receives the wedding arras from the groom. These 13 gold coins are a symbol of trust – that he trusts his bride with his finances. When the bride accepts, she is essentially promising to live up to that financial trust with careful attention and prudence. This traditional gift is customarily offered in an ornate box or on a gift tray which symbolizes good wishes for prosperity. The 13 gold coins are thought to represent Jesus and his 12 apostles and are presented to the priest at the start of the ceremony to be blessed. He then gives them to the groom, who hands them to the best man who gives them back to the priest near the end of the ceremony. In the end, the coins are given to the groom who then presents them to his new wife.


      Wedding Lasso
      Unique Mexican Wedding Kit

      Godparents serve as sponsors

      Another special custom practiced in the Mexican wedding tradition includes Godparents (Los Padrinos) who serve as sponsors for different facets of the wedding including things like flowers, the cake, and even the bride’s dress, plus they contribute to the cost of the wedding ceremony. The role for the godmother (madrina) includes carrying a wine glass for the toast, and other roles for godparents can involve a prayer book, guestbook, an embroidered kneeling pillow, and a large loop of rosary beads known as the wedding lasso which is used for another wedding tradition as the godparents place it on the couple after they exchange vows.

      What does the wedding lasso tradition mean?

      The wedding lasso tradition represents unity. The godparents place the lasso or lazo around the necks of the couple in an eight-shape configuration which represents infinity and symbolizes the love that binds the couple as they face the shared responsibility of marriage together. It is laid upon the groom’s shoulders fist, and then intertwined to join him to the bride. The lasso is then worn for the remainder of the service, and once it is taken off is presented to the bride as a keepsake that reminds her she has become the mistress of the groom’s heart and home. 

      Variations of this tradition can include interlacing orange blossoms with the beads which is thought to represent fertility and happiness. In some families, a double wedding lasso is given by one set of the parents.






      Delicious Mexican wedding cookies

      One last Mexican wedding tradition worth mentioning are Mexican wedding cookies known as polvorones. The ingredients in these cookies are very similar to Russian teacakes, or Italian wedding cookies and are made using flour, butter, sugar and ground nuts. These cookies are also known as Mexican wedding cake cookies but their origins date back to medieval Arab according to food historians. No matter where they originated, they are a special treat at any wedding.

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      Thursday, January 18, 2018

      Bride’s Pie: The Savory Wedding Dish That Came Before the Modern Wedding Cake

      (Updated October 2026)

      I've written about the evolution of the wedding cake tradition and how it reaches all the way back to ancient Rome, when a loaf of hearty bread was broken over the bride's head.

      But the story of wedding cake isn't a straight line from Roman bread to the tiered cakes we know today.

      Along the way, weddings featured some rather interesting dishes—including Bride's Pie.

      If you're imagining a sweet dessert covered in frosting, think again.

      Bride's Pie was a savory wedding dish, and its history gives us another glimpse into how wedding food and wedding traditions have changed over the centuries.


      Bride's Pie


      17th Century Wedding Cake

      Bride's Pie was a savory pie associated with weddings and wedding celebrations. Unlike today's wedding cake, it wasn't necessarily a dessert. Historical recipes could contain a rather remarkable assortment of meats, seafood, fruits, nuts, spices, and other ingredients.

      And before we look at one of those recipes, there's something important to keep in mind. People in earlier centuries cooked differently from the way we do today. They used more of the animal, preserved foods in different ways, and combined ingredients that might seem unusual to modern diners.

      In other words, don't read an old Bride's Pie recipe expecting to find something resembling today's chicken pot pie.

      You may be in for a surprise. 


      Medieval Kitchen
      Medieval Kitchen

      One of the oldest surviving printed recipes I found for a Bride Pye appears in The Accomplisht Cook, a cookbook first published in 1660 by Robert May.

      That puts this particular recipe in the 17th century, during the Historical Age, which falls within the Early Modern period in European history.

      The cookbook's language is also very different from modern English, and some of the ingredients and culinary terms require a little explanation.

      Here's the recipe:

      To make an extraordinary Pie, or a Bride Pye of several Compounds, being several distinct Pies on one bottom. Provide cock-stones and combs, or lamb-stones, and sweet-breads of veal, a little set in hot water and cut to pieces; also two or three ox-pallats blanch’t and slic’t, a pint of oysters, slic’t dates, a handful of pine kernels, a little quantity of broom buds, pickles, some fine interlarded bacon slic’t; nine or ten chestnuts rosted and blanch season them with salt, nutmeg, and some large mace, and close it up with some butter. For the caudle, beat up some butter, with three yolks of eggs, some white or claret wine, the juyce of a lemon or two; cut up the lid, and pour on the lear, shaking it well together; then lay on the meat, slic’t lemon, and pickled barberries, and cover it again, let these ingredients be put in the moddle or scollops of the Pye.

      Now let's translate some of that into modern terms.


      Medieval wedding cake was known as Bride's Pie
       

      Bride’s Pie Recipe 1685

      To make an extraordinary Pie, or a Bride Pye of several Compounds, being several distinct Pies on one bottom. Provide cock-stones and combs, or lamb-stones, and sweet-breads of veal, a little set in hot water and cut to pieces; also two or three ox-pallats blanch’t and slic’t, a pint of oysters, slic’t dates, a handful of pine kernels, a little quantity of broom buds, pickles, some fine interlarded bacon slic’t; nine or ten chestnuts rosted and blanch season them with salt, nutmeg, and some large mace, and close it up with some butter. For the caudle, beat up some butter, with three yolks of eggs, some white or claret wine, the juyce of a lemon or two; cut up the lid, and pour on the lear, shaking it well together; then lay on the meat, slic’t lemon, and pickled barberries, and cover it again, let these ingredients be put in the moddle or scollops of the Pye.

       

      What's in a Bride's Pie?

      The ingredients in this particular recipe certainly aren't what most of us would expect to find in a wedding dessert.

      It calls for:

      • Veal sweetbreads
      • Cock's stones and combs
      • Ox palate
      • Oysters
      • Dates
      • Pine kernels
      • Broom buds
      • Pickles
      • Bacon
      • Chestnuts
      • Eggs
      • Wine
      • Lemon
      • Barberries
      • Butter
      • Nutmeg and mace

      Some of those terms need explaining.

      Sweetbreads aren't bread at all. The term refers to certain organ meats, traditionally the thymus or pancreas of an animal.

      Cock's stones refers to the testicles of a rooster.

      Cock's combs are the fleshy crest on top of a rooster's head.

      Ox palate is the roof of the animal's mouth.

      And yes, people really did eat these things.

      Nothing went to waste.

      That may be one of the biggest differences between this historical recipe and the food served at many modern weddings.

      Why was it called Bride's Pie?

      The name itself tells us that the dish was associated with the bride and the wedding celebration. Bride's Pie belongs to a much older tradition of giving certain foods special meaning at weddings.

      Food wasn't simply something placed on the table because people were hungry. Wedding foods could symbolize:

      • fertility
      • prosperity
      • abundance
      • good fortune
      • the joining of two families

      Bride's Pie also had an interesting connection with wedding guests. In some traditions, something unusual was hidden inside the pie, and finding it could supposedly bring good fortune to the unmarried person who discovered it.

      That idea may sound familiar.

      It is another example of how wedding customs often overlap, change, and borrow from one another over time.

      From Bride's Pie to Wedding Cake

      So where does Bride's Pie fit into the story of wedding cake?

      It isn't quite accurate to say that Bride's Pie simply became the modern wedding cake. Wedding cake has a much more complicated history, with traditions involving ancient Roman wedding bread, later English wedding customs, bride cakes, fruitcake, icing, and eventually the elaborate tiered cakes we recognize today.

      But Bride's Pie is part of the larger story of special foods served at weddings.

      And that's what makes it interesting.

      Wedding celebrations have always involved food. What changed was the food itself.

      Ancient Romans had wedding bread. Later generations had wedding cakes and bride cakes. Bride's Pie brought a savory dish into the wedding celebration.

      Eventually, sweet, elaborately decorated cakes took center stage.

      What Did Bride's Pie Taste Like?

      That's a question I can't answer from experience, and I'm not sure I want to volunteer for the experiment!

      The combination of oysters, bacon, dates, chestnuts, organ meats, spices, lemon, and wine would certainly produce a very different flavor from today's wedding cake.

      If you're planning a historical wedding reenactment, however, a modernized savory pie inspired by the old recipes could make an interesting addition to the menu.

      You don't necessarily have to recreate the original recipe ingredient for ingredient. A savory meat pie using period-inspired ingredients could capture the spirit of the tradition without requiring your wedding guests to eat rooster anatomy.

      And your guests might thank you for that.

      The History of Wedding Food

      One reason I enjoy researching wedding traditions is that they rarely follow a simple path. We tend to think of traditions as though they've always existed in their present form. Wedding cake is a perfect example.

      Today, we picture a beautiful tiered cake covered in icing and decorations. We cut it, take photographs with it, and sometimes save the top tier for a future anniversary. But that cake is the result of centuries of changing customs.

      Bride's Pie is one of the more unusual stops along that journey. It reminds us that wedding food hasn't always been sweet, white, or covered in flowers.

      Sometimes it was a very elaborate savory pie filled with ingredients that would make a modern wedding caterer raise an eyebrow. And honestly, that's one of the things I love about history.

      You never quite know what you're going to find when you look beneath the traditions we take for granted.


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