Irish Wedding Bell Tradition
The Irish wedding bell tradition began with the Irish family giving the couple a set
of bells after they recited their vows. And like the bridal veil tradition, the bells were rung to ward off
evil spirits. After they were married, the wedding bells were kept in the
couple’s home to remind them of their vows to each other.
Irish Wedding Bell |
Why it is called the Irish make up bell
Today, the Irish wedding bell makes a great wedding gift for Irish couples and even those who aren't Irish. The custom is to place the bell in a prominent place in the newlywed’s home, and if/when the couple happens to argue they ring the bell as a reminder of their wedding vows. According to this custom, if the argument can’t be settled affably, the bell is rung louder for these reasons:
- The sound of the bell can purify and dispel over stimulated emotions.
- The result is supposed to be a change in perspective.
- The sounding of the bell signals the end of the argument, even if neither the husband or wife capitulated. It offers the equivalent of a “time out” in the “discussion,” and allows time for both people to cool down and think rationally.
Waterford Irish Wedding Bell |
Irish wedding bell tradition rejuvenated
The Irish wedding bell remains an endearing wedding tradition with its origins in an old superstition. Today it can be celebrated in a number of ways. Some couples give their guests small bells at the ceremony to be rung after the vows are completed, or at the reception to be used as kissing bells. Some brides choose to wear a small bracelet or charm with tiny bells. All of these offer ways to include this tradition in your special day, but having an Irish wedding bell on display in your home offers a special keepsake marking the couple’s Irish heritage and the special vows exchanged that day. And even if you're not Irish, having a make up bell handy in your home can help remind you of what's really important when you have a falling out.
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